I was right! Its him that doesn't want a healthy lifestyle family. Why? Its already hard to workout. Now i found something easy convenient. And he said no. Even food wise is usually heavy. He will ask me uptenth times if i don eat. I really am looking for ways to be more active. But with him not leading a more healthy lifestyle family is going to be difficult. He asked me why am i not wearing my ring. I glared at him and shot that i gained weight!! Im truely hopeless now.